The idea that men are hilariously incompetent at housework and not naturally inclined to like children is not an example of men being “oppressed”, it is a deliberate construction that exempts men from the hard, boring work of running a household and looking after children.
This kind of nuclear family model where mommy stays home and daddy works was literally conceptualized to oppress women; not only is it a way to control women and maintain their dependency on their husbands, but its a reduction in labor costs — or free labor — because women do not receive a wage for doing these things since they have been normalized culturally as, “women’s work.”
It also serves as a cover for the work a woman does outside of their home and denounces anything she does as a “hobby” or w/e because she is ultimately a ~housewife~ i.e. nanny, cook, maid, chauffeur, accountant, sex worker (for husband), personal shopper, and more. Like, women are literally 2/3 of the world’s labor force and they have to do all that shit too?
Everything about the housewife role defines capitalism’s relevance (or contribution) to sex-based oppression so literally anyone that supports capitalism is contradicting themselves if they also maintain they support ~equality~.